Holiday Tip: Less Equals More

By Kate Bennett, PsyD

The holidays are notorious for packed schedules, frantic shoppers, and anxious party-goers as people attempt to create the "perfect" image of holiday joy. Rather than overwhelm your schedules with busyness and the pursuit of perfection (Let's be honest, perfectionism is criticism in disguise. In order to be perfect, you constantly evaluate what is imperfect about yourself and your life.), minimize the activities and focus on the things that matter the most to you and your family. By doing less and mindfully engaging in those things that matter most, I guarantee your holiday will be filled with more cheer than ever before.

(A re-post of a holiday favorite)

(A re-post of a holiday favorite)


Thrive into the Weekend (3.28.14)

[Thrive into the Weekend: A blog series designed to empower athletes to thrive in life and sport by encouraging intentional action]

By Kate Bennett, PsyD

Earlier this week, I wrote about cultivating and sustaining hope. With this idea in mind, take a moment to reconnect with your dreams. Plant your feet flat on the ground, lean back into your chair, close your eyes, and take a deep breath. As you breathe in, imagine what you hope for in the future…whether that be this weekend, this month, or this year. Breathe out and exhale the stress of your week, leave work behind as you head into the weekend. Inhale again, imagining the things you hope for. Exhale, allowing stress to leave your body. Repeat as many times as you would like.

Now that you are grounded in the present and connected to hope, take a moment to set goals to work towards your dreams. Believe in yourself and expect disappoint along the way. Holding hope is a journey filled with surprise, setbacks, and satisfaction. Thrive into the Weekend with hope in your heart and goals in mind.  

Image courtesy of www.funlava.com

Image courtesy of www.funlava.com


Thrive into the Weekend (3.21.14)

[Thrive into the Weekend: A blog series designed to empower athletes to thrive in life and sport by encouraging intentional action]

By Kate Bennett, PsyD

As spring weather set in over the past week, more and more people traveled the path behind our home. A “people-watcher” by nature, I am always curious about the individuals passing by. Sadly, I noticed that, more often than not, most of the people were still connected to some form of technology. Notable observations: An adolescent walking with his family while wearing headphones, a runner jamming to music so loudly he did not hear me yelling “On your left” (note:  I could hear his music from 20 feet away), a woman walking her dog while reading an eBook, and multiple other women pushing strollers while mindlessly talking on the phone or listening to music (note: Attachment formation begins the day a child is born).

My idea for this post came well before I was aware of the National Day of Unplugging; however, I am happy to see there is a movement in place. Our society is so connected to technology that we often forget how to be without it…how to engage in the moment without some sort of screen stimulating our minds. Thrive into the Weekend by unplugging your phones, tablets, and computers. Disconnect to re-connect with your surroundings, family, and friends. You will be amazed by what you learn about yourself and others without the distraction of technology. As Lindsay Holmes wrote in her Huffington Post article, our happiest moments do not come from something posted on social media, they come from moments in life. Disconnect…unplug…thrive.